I first found Erica’s services via social media, a couple I admired posted about her relationship coaching so I followed her on the platform. When I learned about her services, I was happy to see that she also provided individual coaching. I was dating at the time after a bad divorce. I had a lot of baggage that was seeping into different areas of my life due to my divorce. It only took one session with Erica for me to feel comfortable, which was something I had never experienced in previous sessions with other counselors. I became comfortable and opened up to her about my relationship with my then-boyfriend of 5 years. This boyfriend and I had been dating off and on for a few years and had some issues that we needed guidance on but I wasn’t sure if marriage was the right, next step for us. After mentioning him in a few sessions, Erica suggested having him join one of our sessions. I was nervous he wouldn’t connect with her or open up but to my surprise, he was very comfortable speaking with her as well. He said he enjoyed speaking with her so much that he wanted to pay for half of our next session and encouraged me to commit to more couple coaching sessions with him and her.
From there we were able to work through our relational fog with Erica’s help! We decided that it was time to take the next step in our relationship! After 5 years and within the year of working with Erica, my bf proposed and we went from dating counseling to premarital counseling! I was so amazed and nervous to take this next step but I knew after our sessions that this was the right man for me! Erica’s services gave me the confidence to make the decision to remarry with clarity. Her sessions also helped me walk in healing so that I could prepare for what was to come. Being able to share my past experiences with her and my current emotions helped repair my heart from my previous martial failure.
My husband and I have now been married for almost two years and are expecting our rainbow baby girl in the Fall. Erica also walked us through a season of grief counseling when we suffered from a miscarriage in our first year of marriage. We still meet with Erica monthly, her guidance for me personally on a 1:1 basis, relationally, in marriage and now the family building has been life-giving! My favorite thing about Erica is that she is faith-filled but never uses the bible or God to beat you over the head. Instead, she focuses on equipping her clients with tools they can use so they don’t have to depend on religion or her services. After a session with Erica, I feel empowered and better equipped to see situations beyond my own perspective. Erica is a great listener and has the best memory. There are times when she reminds me of things I’ve said and forgotten. She has helped me create a plan for my life, set reasonable goals for myself, communicate with my husband, sort through my emotions, as well as question things that hold me back in my own thinking. We will continue to entrust our marriage and family to Erica’s services because they have been so transformative.
I often recommend her to my family and friends because I want everyone to have an experience of a safe place that we’ve found in Erica. Utilizing Erica’s services has taught my husband and I to stay committed to one another through better communication and not to wait until a crisis to be intentional about our marriage. We know it’s God that brought us together but Erica has sure helped us stick together!
— Leah & Kenny G.